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Decode what Your Dreams Mean

Dreams

While some dreams are mysterious, understanding the meaning of our dreams is more than a mystery–it can be downright baffling. What we’re dreaming about can suddenly change. Our dreams can include outrageous elements. Our dreams can be very scary and terrify us with frightening images. The fact that dreams can be so rich and compelling is what causes many to believe that there must be some deeper meaning to our dreams.

Whether you get to know your dreams more intimately through understanding the messages that come from the subconscious to the conscious mind or not, dreams are an important part of your being, and can contribute greatly to your health and to your happiness.

Dreams are a valuable source of information that’s available to anyone who desires to decode their symbolism. Dreams are a place where you can learn about yourself. Some say that dreaming is more honest than our waking consciousness and that in our dreams we reveal our true feelings—especially about the most important issues in our lives.

Finding the meaning of your dreams is a very personal exercise. Once you can understand how your own associations work, you will have the ability to interpret your dreams. Many people believe that a single dream can have multiple levels of meaning woven into it.

Keep a Dream Journal

If you are interested in figuring out the meaning of your dreams, create your own dream journal and dream dictionary. Keep a journal next to your bed with a pen and write down everything you remember about a dream as soon as you awaken from it.

Be sure to leave plenty of space so you can later add impressions and interpretations of what the dream may have meant. With the added impressions and interpretations, this journal becomes your own personal dream dictionary.

But when it comes to decoding dreams, professionally written dream dictionaries can help, too. So can dream interpreters, who have both psychological and metaphysical knowledge of dreams and their meanings.

But in the end, you are the only one who will be able to decide what you think your dreams really mean. Each person has their own symbols and connections that their own mind thinks about and uses to communicate via dreams. So only you can know for sure what your dreams mean.

Humor and Happiness

Enjoy dreaming! Your dreams can be a place of entertainment where you can enjoy yourself. It’s been said that the healthiest people are those who are happy. Use your dreams as a means to achieve that happiness. Dreaming can put you into a positive mood that can last all day. That positive mood can affect your psychological structure and lead you into all kinds of positive experiences.

Use your dream journal in a way to have fun with what you’ve written, and even laugh at what you’ve written! Let the dreams and your accounts of them amuse you. The dream world is limitless. You may even be able to learn how to lucid dream, which means that you’re aware you’re dreaming and can be in control of your dreams.

Pay close attention to your dreams. You may gain a deeper understanding of yourself and of your feelings. Look at it this way: dreams can act as keys to the doorways you have within yourself. Open those doors!

The I Ching and it’s History

Ching and it’s History

The sixty-four archetypes of the I Ching (Book of Changes) has been a part of this book of wisdom since 1070 BCE.  These archetypes include all the six-line combinations of yin and yang that make up the hexagrams that are the basis of the I Ching.  Yin and Yang are the symbols of perfect balance. They signify female and male, light and dark. The hexagrams are symbolic of the sixty- four types of relationships.

The hexagrams can be viewed in a myriad of ways. If you divide them, they become trigrams that represent the basic elements of earth, thunder, wind, fire, mountain, lake, and sky.  It is from the trigrams that we get Feng Shui, the art of placement.

Myths of the I Ching

The myths that are around the beginnings of the eight trigrams are part of the I Ching. One is about the first emperor of China, Fu Hsi. He is said to have seen a turtle emerge from the Yellow River. He knew that wisdom comes for the observation of nature, and he realized that the eight symbols he saw on the turtles back were representative of the reflection of the movement of life on Earth through energy.

There are other myths connected to Fu Hsi’s examination of nature.  He saw signs and symbols everywhere and he identified trigrams in all of these.  He linked this knowledge to balance of yin and yang.

This isn’t the only occurrence of tortoises and their role in divination.  There is evidence that the shells of the tortoise were heated to the point of cracking. These patterns were read.  There are artifacts that depicted the demarcation of interpretation.  These are on display at the National Museum in Taiwan.

Shang Dynasty

Then there are legends about the queens of the Shang Dynasty who were descendants of an ancient family of diviners These women read the shells of live turtles. This legend may be factual as archeologists compile information.  Even in Chinese traditions it states that the combination of yin and yang and the mythology of creation in China created the basis of I Ching.

King Wen at the end of the Shang Dynasty used his imprisonment as on opportunity to focus on the trigrams. He put them together to make the sixty-four hexagrams.  He assigned meanings to the combinations and gave them names.  His son added some interpretations which helped move the I Ching towards the way it exists now.

Contributions of Confucius

It was Confucius, a hundred years later, who took the existing form to a new level by adding his own commentaries based on his mediations.  This Book of Changes was part of the ancient oral traditions of China.  It is said that they were composed int the Eighth Century BCE.  It was 1300 years before the specific interpretations came into use.  It was spared from destruction because it was considered a great classic.

Han Dynasty

During the Han Dynasty the I Ching was studied by scholars, and at the turn of the millennium, new additions were made in regard to the lines in the trigrams.

Current I Ching

The current I Ching is still basically the same as it was in 168 BCE.   The subtle changes happened around 300 AD. Despite its ancient wisdom, the Western World didn’t fully embrace it until a relatively recent 150 years ago.

Currently the most common way to cast the I Ching is to toss three coins six times.  This creates the hexagram.  The more traditional way uses the selection and sorting of fifty yarrow stalks. After the coins or stalks are cast, the interpretations are then gleaned from the book itself.

Fun Facts About Dreams You Don’t Know

Facts About Dreams

Dreams are Mysterious, bewildering, eye-opening and sometimes a nightmarish hell. Your dream’s length can vary from a few seconds to as long as 30 minutes. The average person goes through 3-5 dreams a night, mainly occurring in the rapid eye movement (REM) stage of sleep; it’s in this stage where the brain is at its most active time, almost as if you were awake.

Below are a 20 Interesting Facts About Dreams that You Might Not Know:

  1. You Forget 90% of your Dreams

Many people keep a dream diary by the bedside table to help them record their dreams, and with good reason. Within 5 minutes of waking, half of your dream is already gone; within 10, you will have forgotten 90% of it. Freud has theorized that dreams are forgotten because they contain repressed feelings or thoughts that we don’t want to remember anyway.

Dream researcher L. Strumpell, on the other hand, blames the vagueness of dreams; because we tend to remember things by association and repetition, remembering dreams can be quite challenging.

  1. Women have More Nightmares than Men

In a 2009 study conducted by Jennie Parker, British researcher, and psychologist for the University of the West of England it was discovered that “women in general do experience more nightmares than men”.

Women’s nightmares were also reported to be more emotionally intense than men’s. The test involved 100 women and 93 men between the ages of 18 and 25, who were asked to record their dreams in diaries.

  1. Night Owls Have More Nightmares

A study conducted by the Yúzúncú Yil University in Turkey has shown that those who stay up and wake up late have a higher chance of belonging to the 2-6% population who has weekly nightmares. The study states that, although cortisol levels rise in the morning, irregular sleep patterns disturb circadian rhythms and lead to the stress hormone affecting dreams.

  1. Your Dream Might be the Next Big Thing

Several game-changing ideas came about from dreams, says Harvard University psychologist Deirdre Barrett. In a weeklong study conducted on college students, Barrett asked the students to incubate answers to school assignments and other problems they were facing at the moment. The study concluded with 50% of the volunteers having a dream about their problem and 25% actually dreaming of a solution.

  1. Dreams Can Help You Lose Weight

For those looking to lose some extra pounds, you’ll be glad to know that dreams do burn calories. In a study conducted at St. Luke’s Hospital in New York, volunteers went under a strict diet regimen for 4 days under various sleep conditions. They were then asked to fast on day 5 and were allowed to eat as much as they liked on days 6 and 7.

The results showed that those who slept longer and had more dreams each night were less hungry, specifically for fat- and carbohydrate-rich foods. Volunteers who slept only 4 hours each night, on the other hand, found that their metabolism slowed down and they ate more on the 6th and 7th day.

  1. Depressed People Have Better Dreams

In a study that involved 23 women and 26 men going through a divorce, psychologist Rosalind Cartwright from Rush University found that those diagnosed with clinical depression were better off than their more resilient counterparts. While the depressed subjects had shorter, more pleasurable dreams, their better-adjusted peers had more ruthless dreams, usually involving their exes.

  1. Nightmares Help Pregnant Women

Researchers at the University of Messina in Italy found that pregnant women who had bad dreams about birthing traumas or losing the baby often experienced shorter labor periods.

  1. Violent Dreams Can be Warning Signs

If you think nightmares are bad, then imagine having a rare sleep disorder wherein you act out violent dreams by kicking and screaming. According to a study published online on 28 July 2010 in Neurology, this can be an early sign of brain disorders as you get older.

  1. Dreams are Stress-Busters

In a study published in the Nov. 23, 2011, issue of Current Biology, UC Berkeley scientists found that the brain showed decreased levels of chemicals associated with stress during REM sleep.

According to Matthew Walker, associate professor of psychology and neuroscience, previous emotional experiences lose much of their negative effects the next day because they have been reprocessed in a neuro-chemically safe environment during the dream state.

  1. People Tend to Dream about the Same Things

A 2004 study, which was conducted by scientists from the Sleep Laboratory at the Central Institute of Mental Health in Mannheim, Germany, showed that most of the 55 typical dream themes occurred at least once in most of the participants’ lifetimes.

  1. Sexual Dreams are a Common Occurrence for Everyone

Psychologist Antonio Zadra, in a study conducted in 2007, was able to show that dreams about sex account for approximately 8% of all reported dreams for both men and women. The most common type of sexual dream involved intercourse, while some dreams involved kissing and fantasies.

  1. Not all Dreams are Colorful

While many people dream in color, it’s estimated that 1 person in 8 has dreams in black and white. Dundee University’s Eva Murzyn suggests that “…there could be a critical period in our childhood when watching films has a big impact on the way dreams are formed.” She concluded this from the fact that dreams during the 20th century were almost always devoid of color; the shift to colored dreams occurred only during the 1960’s, coinciding with the advent of Technicolor.

  1. Dreams Paralyze You

During REM sleep, or dream-phase sleep, your body suppresses the release of neurotransmitters such as norepinephrine, serotonin, and histamine—all of which are vital in stimulating motor neurons. This effectively paralyzes the body and puts it in a state of REM atonia, a condition wherein the muscles are in a state of relaxation that borders on paralysis.

  1. Our Pets Dream Too

Studies have shown that REM sleep and its associated brain states also occur in a number of animals.

  1. There is a Science to Dreams

While dream interpretation focuses on understanding dream meaning and deciphering their symbolisms, Oneirology, the scientific study of dreams, is more concerned with the mechanisms and processes involved in dreaming.

  1. Blind People also Have Dreams

Not all dreams are visual, and this makes it possible for blind people to dream. Researchers from the University of Copenhagen and Glostrup Hospital in Denmark published a study in Sleep Medicine stating that blind people’s dreams mostly involve auditory and gustatory sensations.

While people who become blind after birth have visual dreams, those who were born blind also have vivid dreams, thanks to a broader array of sensory inputs.

  1. Dreams are More Vivid for Quitters

According to the Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 33% of 293 smokers who were abstinent for between 1 and 4 weeks reported having at least 1 dream about smoking, with these dreams being described as more vivid than usual.

It was concluded that they were the result of tobacco withdrawal because 97% of the test subjects did not have them while smoking. The dreams were also rated to be as common as most major tobacco withdrawal symptoms.

  1. Déjà vu is a Thing

If you’ve ever had the feeling that you’ve already seen or felt something that you’re only experiencing for the first time, you’re not alone. A survey found that 18-38% of people who participated in the survey have had at least one precognitive dream, and 70% have experienced déjà vu. It’s also interesting to note that up to 98% of these people believe in the possibility of precognitive dreams.

  1. Familiarity Breeds Dreams

You may not be familiar with all the characters in your dreams, so it might surprise you to know that those strangers in your dreams are people you have already seen in the real world. Through your life, you have already seen thousands of faces that you may not necessarily remember. The mind does not invent faces for the people in your dreams; it already has an ample supply stored somewhere in your memory.

  1. Dreams Can Melt into Reality

At times, you may be dreaming of frolicking in a meadow and then suddenly hear the shrill sound of bells, only to wake up to the sound of your alarm clock. This phenomenon is known as Sensory Incorporation, wherein elements of your physical surroundings incorporate merge with your dream.

study conducted by Nielsen in 1993 has shown that the physical sensation of pressure on the participants’ legs was incorporated into their dreams, subtly yet directly.

How to Find Your Personal Path to Success

Personal Path to Success

Is it possible to find your perfect job, life and career? This is not an impossible dream.  These goals can be achieved through strong commitment, effort, and focus. It will be hard work, but it will pay off in the end.

Happy and fulfilled people have the life and career that is best suited for them.  Their lives would not be a perfect fit for you. Only you can describe and achieve what is perfect for you.  But it is achievable. If you are willing to think it, plan it and work it, this dream can be yours.

Goals and Successes

Many want successful lives, but success doesn’t look the same for everyone. Because success looks different for everyone, it is hard to see that there are different roads to fulfillment. Everyone walks a different path, and some will walk many different directions before arriving to their goal.  The key is how you use your journey that may lead you to success.

Embracing Change

Change can be good for you. Some put off unpleasant tasks out of avoidance. Few realize that these tasks are unpleasant because you are moving in the wrong direction. If your job feels stagnant and boring, it may be time for a change. You will never find your way if you are on the wrong path. Once you discover the perfect life goal, a goal that is important to you, you will find yourself on the right path.

Working Towards the Top

Once you find your goal, you may discover that you have to start out at the beginning, or the bottom, and work your way to the top. If you have faith in your dreams and the desires to make it happen, you will reach your dream of success.

You should examine what defines success for you as an individual. Many people are saddened because they are reaching for a goal that is not right for them

To find your goal, forget about everyone else and think about what makes you happy every day. Happiness comes from within. Once you realize this it will be easy to determine your goals.

What Brings You Happiness?

The first step on your personal path will be determine what you really want and what makes you feel good and bring you joy.   Ask yourself what can make this happen.  Remember the goal itself is not a feeling.  A goal is a real thing that leads to a feeling.

Once you center yourself on your goal, you have to be willing to take risks.  This will be difficult if you put too much value on what others may think.  Detach yourself from this so you can become a major player in your own life.

The downside to this is that you may make mistakes. You have to give yourself permission to learn from your mistakes and then move on to succeed.  Acknowledge that you will probably fail a time or two before reaching your goal.  Many successful people will tell you that with risk comes failure.  Don’t be afraid of it! Embrace it!