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Knowing Where Your Soulmate Is

Knowing Where Your Soulmate Is

Are you someone that wants to find your soulmate, but you don’t know if you will ever or if you have ever met them? The excitement of finding your soulmate can be more than just having a funny or exciting feeling in your stomach but it can be something that you find overwhelming. This doesn’t mean that it is a bad thing even though it can lead to frustration when you don’t feel able to find them or to know.

You most likely have already met at least one of your soulmates. A soulmate isn’t just someone that is a lover, but it can be a friend, teacher, stranger, or mentor. A soulmate that most people are hoping to find is one that will be romantic.

Once you understand what a soulmate is, you can find out if you have met your soulmate or if you feel that your soulmate might show up to you soon. It is important that you understand who a soulmate is and why this can be challenging.

Facts About Soulmates

Here are some facts about meeting your soulmate:

  • They aren’t always romantic lovers.
  • They can be a friend, boss, parent, or other person.
  • Soulmates sometimes come from your past life.
  • They will follow the same path as you.
  • They can be there to help you learn a life lesson.
  • They can cause you to feel angry or challenged.
  • The soulmate can create hard relationships.
  • You will keep meeting a soulmate until you learn your lesson.
  • Soulmates are important things in your life.

Romantic Soulmates

When you want to meet a romantic soulmate, you need to understand that these are relationships that can bring a lot of pain and frustration. You can meet this person and it can cause you to feel connected in a deep way.

You might find that you keep having memories of a soulmate that you never remember happening in this life. This can mean that your soulmate is someone from a past connection that has come to you to let your soul learn from the experiences.

Why Is a Soulmate a Problem?

The reason that looking for your soulmate can be a problem is that there can be soulmate connections that are hard and challenging. These are connections that can make you feel tired or frustrated and it might not leave you hoping for what you wanted.

Some will have a soulmate that will last a long time, but most soulmate relationships are short. These come when you need to learn a lesson. As you make changes and learn the lesson that the universe is trying to teach you, chances are that your soulmate will move on, and you will replace them with a new soulmate in your life. Be patient and you will see that your soulmates will come.

Using Numbers to Find a Soulmate

Using Numbers to Find a Soulmate

Are you trying to find a soulmate? If you are, you might need to look deeper than looks to find them.

Numerology

Numerology is something that is important to the lives of many people, and this is based on numbers and dates. Even names can turn into numbers, and they can help to explain your personality and who you are or if you are compatible with someone or not. There are different numbers such as Life Path numbers, Soul Urge numbers and more. You can use numbers to follow your soul path or your karmic path and you can use the numbers to help you to find your soulmate.

You need to figure out your Life Path number and this is found by using your date of birth and breaking it down into a single digit. Then you can find this number and you can see if you are compatible with someone in your life.

Finding Your Life Path Number

If your birthday is June 28, 1982, you add the numbers together 6+2+8+1+9+8+2= 36 and then add 3+6=9 and 9 is your Life Path number. The numbers 11 and 22 should not be broken down to a single digit because they are considered Master Numbers, and they carry their own vibration.

After you find your Life Path number you can find out who you would match with:

Matches

Number 1: Independence.

Number 2: Sensitive.

Number 3: Creativity.

Number 4: Organization.

Number 5: Adventure.

Number 6: Compassionate and caring.

Number 7: Deep thinker.

Number 8: Visionary.

Number 9: Humanitarian.

Number 11: Master Number or Intuitive.

Number 22: Master Number or Builder.

Number 33: Master Number or Teacher.

If you are someone that is ambitious or someone that is a visionary, you might find a soulmate that is compassionate even though your numbers are different. It would be less likely that you would find interest in someone who is independent.

Your personality and the personality of your soulmate will match based on your Life Path number and this will help you to understand who they are and what they want in life and what you want and need.

Numerology Chart

The numbers in numerology can help you to understand things in your life including your soulmate. This can change depending on your cycles. There are different cycles that people will go through such as Pinnacle Cycles, Personal Year Cycles, Period Cycles and more. You can find out what cycles these are based on numerology.

Final Thoughts

You can figure out more about yourself if you learn past your Life Path number. Find out what numbers have meaning in your life and why and how they affect you and finding your soulmate. If you have questions, talk to a psychic.

Know Your Kundalini Sexual Energies

Kundalini Sexual Energies

Energy found at the bottom of your spine is Kundalini energy. This sexual energy comes from the serpent goddess, and it can come out when you meditate and do yoga. This also can increase with love and with being selfless. This is a type of awakening that happens in the brain and then it moves through the spirit into your body.

Using Kundalini with Relationships

There are different things that come with Kundalini, but it works great with your relationships that are romantic. You can awaken this by stopping your sexual activity so that you can use this energy for change instead of for sex. There are other ways that you can make your Kundalini stronger, or you can awaken it. If interested, read on!

  • Be Yourself

The first thing that you can do is to open up your Kundalini by what you have and who you are and not what you just wish would happen. This needs to come naturally for you. Some believe that you can use Kundalini exercises for healing or to reach a higher place, but you need to learn to relax and let this happen on your own.

  • Don’t Lose Sight of Intimacy

Don’t lose sight of your intimacy but instead focus on what you are experiencing in your own sexual self. Be intimate in the moment and let the spiritual level of this connect. Do this as you are selfless and as you are showing acts of love.

  • Take Action

You need to make sure that you are taking action and that you are having a desire. Desire in Kundalini is called Iccha and knowledge is called jnana where action is known as kriya. You can’t just have a desire to make it happen, but you need to know how and what to do with it and then take action to make your desire come to fruition.

  • Get Rid of Old Ideas

You don’t just go into sex for an orgasm when doing Kundalini. This is a time that you are to give up on yourself and surrender your moment. This can take you to a place where you will orgasm because of the serpent goddess but that shouldn’t be your only desire.

  • Get in Tune

Take time to get to know your partner. Do foreplay and do what it takes to get your partner aroused. Make sure that you are connecting with them by looking into their eyes and breathing at the same time as them. Touch your partner and meditate. The goal shouldn’t be to orgasm, but it should be to enjoy your partner.

  • Tantric Sex

Tantric sex is when you connect with your partner. This is Kundalini and it is one that will travel up to your spine and it will be released as sexual energy. Tantric sex is an orgasm that will go from your spine to your sexual organs, and you will feel it all the way up to the top of your head or your crown chakra. The sensation will be in your groin, but you need to focus more on how you feel throughout your spine and throughout your body.

  • Have Fun

The most important part of Kundalini energy and sex is that you are having fun. This is an awakening that you will want to reach, and it is part of your life journey.

Understanding Spiritual Alchemy

Spiritual and the human world

Alchemy is something that has been studied for years and years because it holds a big place in history. This is when you take knowledge and traditions, and you use root traditions and chemistry to make things happen. This was developed in religious and philosophical times and is part of mysticism and other religious practices and is connected to chemistry.

Understanding Alchemy

There are different ideas behind alchemy, and they go back to Egyptian times. There is a connection between the spiritual and physical world and the gods such as Thoth and Hermes. The world alchemy is from the Greek word Khemka which means giving or “black earth.” 

Alchemy is considered an art, and it has changing forms and matters. It is a form of chemistry before chemistry came and the main object of it is:

  • To find the Stone of Knowledge.
  • To find Eternal Youth and health.
  • To find Transmutation of Metals.

Opus Magnum

This means “Great Work” and is part of alchemy that means working with prima materials or physical matter. This is done to create the Philosopher’s Stone which is a chemical substance that can turn base metals into gold or silver. This can also rejuvenate, and b eased to find mortality. 

Alchemical Opus Magnus is a journey that changes and goes through different colors. It is represented by the colors:

  • Nigredo which means blackening or melanosis.
  • Albedo which means whitening or leucosis.
  • Citrinitas which means yellowing or xanthosis.
  • Rubedo which means reddening or losis.

This is the goal of alchemy to produce Magnum Opis which means to change your spiritual self and to get rid of impurities and to realize how to communicate with the divine and to find purpose.

Purification

Alchemy focuses on purification and perfecting things. This is when the chrysopeia changes and the transmutation of base metals such as copper can turn into gold or silver. This is thought to bring immortality and to cure diseases.

This is spiritual alchemy and means that you have materials in you that can change your thoughts and your awareness and can work with the body to create a lighter state of being. This means that if you have things that are blocking your creation then you can approach this and focus on the heart and undergo a spiritual change.

Meanings of Alchemy

People use alchemy to understand the process of things through symbols and meanings. Here are some of the meanings of alchemy:

Alchemical Trinity

  • Sulfur which means Infinite God and consciousness.
  • Mercury which represents creative power.
  • Salt which represents self.

Mercury works with the mind to change the energy and to act as a medium between the salt and sulfur. This is because there is a messenger between the gods and the people. This is a powerful creative power called primordial force.

Elements

There are five elements that work with the world and the body, and these are made up of philosophy, medicine, science, alchemy and more:

  • Aether.
  • Fire.
  • Water.
  • Air.
  • Earth.

These include other things that are part of the elements:

  • Circle: Soul.
  • Square: Body.
  • Triangle: Spirit.

Seven Metals of the Planets

There are seven metals that work with the planets and the gods, and they are all alchemical symbolism. The symbols have elements that they represent including:

  • Lead: Saturn.
  • Iron: Mars.
  • Tin: Jupiter.
  • Gold: Sun.
  • Mercury.
  • Silver: Moon.
  • Copper: Venus.

Other Alchemy Symbols:

  • Antimony: wild spirit of man.
  • Arsenic: Image of a swan.
  • Bismuth.
  • Magnesium: Alba or Mild Magnesium.
  • Phosphorus: Light and spirit.
  • Alchemist: Platinum.
  • Potash.
  • Zinc.
  • Quintessence.

Stages of Change

Here are the stages of change:

  • Calcination which means purifying yourself.
  • Dissolution: Solids into liquid.
  • Separation: Hidden substances.
  • Conjunction: Processes inside of you.
  • Fermentation: Chemical breakdown.
  • Distillation: Impurities are removed.
  • Coagulation: Spiritual change.

These are changes that can be seen in the body with the blood and having impurities removed:

  • Spiritual Awakening

Spiritual alchemy is an occult practice that uses the spiritual awakening to renew your mind and your soul. It is part of your personality and as the metals change the person can change to have spiritual transformation. Alchemy is used in phyllophyte and can help with this change. It is the place where people want to go to reach a higher level and to have peace and renewal of the soul.

  • Violet Flame

This is when you use a purple candle to speed up the spiritual changes. You can add crystals to increase your energy and to help your manifestation powers. Adding essential oils such as lavender can help you to feel good and can relax you and bring magic to it.

  • Grounding

Before you ever try this make sure that you are grounded and that your chakras are strong. The chakras need to be grounded so that you can let your energy flow correctly.

  • Meditating

Meditate in the now and make sure that you do this so that you can bring balance to your body and clear your mind of negativity. This can get you in the right place.

  • Invite the Guides

Ask the guides and your guardian angels to come and keep you safe anytime you are doing some kind of spiritual work.

  • Transformation

Imagine a violet light going around you and protecting you so that you can get out of negative light.

  • Violet Cords

Visualize the cords around you and imagine a violet cord connecting you from nature to the spiritual world. This can be a way to let go of your fear and your worry. Imagine it being connected to plants, flowers, trees, and other nature and become one with it.

  • Changes

The elements will come together as you manifest change. You can work through the stages of transformation as many times as you need to. Allow the violet flame to flow through you and imagine the power of the elements to fill you and to bring you creative power. Call on them from the north, south, east, and west and expect there to be power.

Spiritual alchemy can be powerful and help you to let go of things in your past that are holding you back. Let your life get rid of negative emotions and fear and take all the time that you need to change and to transfer. Meditate and do this as many times as you need to support you through your awakening or your spiritual journey.

Archetype Lovers

Archetype Lovers

Do you love to hear stories of romance and drama? Humanity has shown us that DNA plays a big role in how we act and what we do but what about how we love? People set goals in life to figure out who they are and to figure out what they want but there is a chemical in your body that sometimes seems to draw you to certain people. This is something that seems to be illogical.

Love is something that can cause people to act differently than they normally do, and we have seen this in stories about archetypes and the kinds of love that they have shown.

Love Abounds

Tristan and Isolde are a tale of happiness and hell and excitement but tragedy. They are people that are star crossed lovers which means that they find love, but the love is so bad that it becomes a terrible thing. They will get into a place of obsession or a place where the laws of the gods don’t even make sense.

Sometimes one of them is going to be married while the other promises themselves to this person.

  • Romeo and Juliet

Romeo and Juliet is a tale of two families that are enemies, and they fall in love with each other. The ending is one of death and destruction and even though they are star crossed, nothing seems to work out the way that it seems like it should.

  • Helen of Troy

Helen of Troy and Paris are also story crossed lovers and they cause there to be nations that fight against each other, once again, the love ending in something drastic.

  • Lancelot and Guinevere

Lancelot and Guinevere are two that go during this mythical place, and they destroy Camelot. They no longer follow the order that they are born with and given.

  • Deirdre of the Sorrows

Deidre of the Sorrows shows people that there is ap rice to pay when you are not doing what you should be doing or when you choose to not follow social order.

  • Chaos in Archetypes

There is so much chaos when it comes to love and Archetypes. Nature doesn’t always allow the social idea of love to work and even when there is a quest and an agenda to have love, it doesn’t always end the way that people hope.

Star crossed lovers are people that seem to be filled with hope but then tragedy and conflict come and take over to the point where there are never any real answers as to why love didn’t win. Even though the stories show that love is magic, love doesn’t come and win like we think that it should.

The idea of love can be like poison in the veins and even when there is bonding and feelings, it doesn’t mean that things will work out how it seems like it should.

Chaos seems to often happen and when there is attraction, but no change is ever going to take place, the idea of love can die. The ones that find the love end up being forsaken and being left crying or dead. Love can be masculine and feminine and there has to be control and choices.

Family, religion, and romance can all go hand in hand when you look at stories all over the world and in different cultures. Some will end with a happily ever after while others end in death and tragedy. Magic doesn’t always win and sometimes things fail and fall, and things end terrible for everyone.

Instinct Versus Social Law

One of the biggest problems when it comes to love is instincts versus the social law. This is when sorrow and grief seem to find its place without there being any kind of warning that it will end that way.

There has to be a lesson learned that sometimes nature can’t even when it comes to love. We have to see that archetypes can change over time and that people die, people come to ruin and things end. Rebellion can happen but, in the end, effort doesn’t always prove to win.

How Does My Partner Feel About Me?

Partner Feel About Me

Psychics are most often asked questions about love. There are many people around the world that have a partner and they want to know what their partner really thinks about them. They choose to get a reading to find out the feelings that their partner has for them. Everyone will get to a place where they are addicted to love and what they feel for someone, and they want to know if they are getting the same in return. It is natural to have love between a parent and a child but love between a partner can be confusing.

There are times when people wonder if their partner really loves them and if they will ever change to love them more. No matter what the reader says, this is a question of freewill and freewill is something that cannot be changed by someone else. Sometimes when we want to understand love, it can be hard. We want to know that the person that we love will change for the better and sometimes fear wants to know if the partner will stay with them or not.

At other times, people will want to know about a specific person and why they treat them in a certain way to make them feel bad. If you can find someone that will tell you that someone will love you, chances are you won’t feel the pain of the disrespect that you are experiencing.

Some will avoid the heartbreak that they are getting, and a reader can give you a reading about your own life and the life of your partner, but the reading doesn’t guarantee that your partner will change.

Will He Love You?

One of the biggest questions that are asked about love is if the partner will really love them. This can be a hard question to get answers to and a psychic can do a tarot card reading but it doesn’t mean that it will come true because heart issues are never totally reliable.

This is why there are people that hate getting psychic readings when the truth is that you cannot change the heart of someone or take away their freewill. The psychic will be able to pick up the energy of the client and sometimes the energy of the partner and they can give a reading based on what is happening right then, but they cannot give a real reading based on what might happen in the future because of freewill.

Love is different for different people and even if someone loves you, it doesn’t mean that they will be with you or that being with them is the best thing for you. The things based around the relationship might be terrible for you or for your partner and so it might not be the best thing.

Even though we all have a soul, and the soul wants something specific, love is not always the right thing with the person you are with. Love can be healing but it can also be hurtful. When your energies are blocked, you have to let go of this blockage and heal so that you can move on from disappointment and find true love.

If you are in a place where someone isn’t giving you the love that you want, you might need to move on from that relationship. You shouldn’t have to be forced to wait for someone to love you. You don’t always need to ask a psychic if someone loves you or not because you can tell but you can choose to ask them how you can be more open to love.

When you make choices based on what is going on in your life now, you can allow yourself to bring changes so that you can be open to love. Letting go of a relationship that is toxic for you can help you to be open for a relationship that can end up being great for you. The universe will support you to be open to new love.

Waiting around for someone that isn’t available for you will be hurtful and it might cause you to fear love in the future. You might be uncertain about what love has for you and that is okay. Allow yourself to be open to your emotions and to sexual intimacy and let go of hurt that holds you back.

Final Thoughts

Understanding your past relationships can be helpful but the best thing that you can do is to talk to a psychic so that they can help you to know what is best for you in the now. Let them guide you and answer questions about true love so that you can find the love that is right for you.

Adult with Attachment Styles

Secure Attachment in Adults

One style of attachment is a secure attachment. This is one of the primary attachment styles that are seen in the psychological models that shows how people act in different kinds of relationships.

A secure attachment is a stable attachment, and it is something that most people will see when they are dating someone. If you are wanting to be in a relationship that is serious, the best style for you is probably one that is a secure attachment.

Secure Attachments

People will get their attachment style from childhood. This comes from the way that the child is treated by their caregiver and parents. The way that a person acts, how they treat you, how they treat themselves and how they take care of their needs are some of the traits of attachments. The way that someone handles their emotions and socializes with others is the way that they will also interact with those around them.

When a person has a safe and secure childhood, they are normally going to have a secure attachment. This is one that was formed in childhood and the person will normally keep this attachment forever.

Secure Attachment in Adults

Here are some signs that you have a partner that has a secure attachment:

  • They are good at talking to each other: They express the feelings and thoughts easily.
  • Supportive: They attach to people and will be able to support and help them. They believe in self-worth.
  • Empathy: These people have strong empathy, and they take care of themselves and take care of you. They don’t feel guilty for self-care.
  • Honesty: This is a person that can say what they are feeling, and they communicate without playing games.
  • Boundaries: They have boundaries, and they are able to follow them. If you overstep the boundaries that they created, they will tell you in a kind way and they expect the same.
  • Compromise: This is a person that won’t be upset if you don’t agree with them.
  • Commitment: They don’t get scared of being committed to someone in a long-term way. They aren’t afraid to be intimate.
  • Trusting: They trust, and they are people that won’t get jealous or doubtful unless there is a real reason. They are also very faithful.
  • Growth mindset: They aren’t afraid of being intimate or committing to others. They connect with people, and they stay by your side no matter what.
  • Resentment: They have had bad things happen to them, but they don’t resent anyone or hold it against them.

Developing a Secure Attachment

There are other styles that aren’t so healthy such as an anxious, avoidant, or anxious-avoidant attachment style and these are styles that aren’t so healthy. The habits behind these styles are hard to break.

The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you understand the behaviors of people around you. If you notice that someone is following these behaviors, don’t wait and talk to a therapist that can help.

Another thing that you can do for yourself is to find someone that is going to have a secure attachment style before you ever start dating. Decide what kind of partner you want to attract and see if you find one that is calm, that stays consistent and one that is secure in who they are. If they aren’t available to you emotionally, they might have an unhealthy attachment.

Having a partner that is secure is going to help you to be emotionally safe and it allows you to avoid things such as codependency and other things that can be bad for your relationship. Here are some ways that you can have a secure attachment with someone:

  • Don’t take things personally.
  • Know the emotional needs and express them to your partner.
  • Be honest.
  • Be direct.
  • When you are acting clingy work on yourself.
  • Be vulnerable sometimes.
  • If you get uncomfortable, face it.
  • Go slow and have your partner’s interest in mind.
  • Learn to regulate your emotions.
  • Don’t run away when there is a problem.
  • Try not to react to everything.
  • Have strong boundaries.

If you want to put the work into any relationship, you can help to shift one kind of negative attachment style to a more secure attachment style. You must learn to be patient with your partner and with yourself. Having an unsecure attachment can be unhealthy and if you are the one that has this then make sure that you are letting go of any hurt or resentment from a caregiver. It is your responsibility to put in the effort to love yourself and to have a secure attachment.

Using Tarot for Twin Flame Love

Tarot for Twin Flame Love

Twin flame relationships only happen once in your life and therefore they are very powerful. They can be very intense, and they will teach you lessons that push you to the next level. Once you meet your twin flame, your life will never be the same. They will change your life in every way. The twin flame will help you to grow and if you want to know this connection more, doing a tarot card reading might help.

Twin Flame Relationship

A twin flame is the other half of your soul. They come to the earth in different bodies, but you share a soul with them. You will be unified with them when you meet them and not everyone meets their twin flames. These relationships bring healing and hope into your life.

When you meet your twin, you will have an instant connection with them, and the relationship will change fast. There will be both ups and downs and you will be able to read their mind and use your gift of telepathy because of the energies that you share.

Tarot Card Spreads for Twin Flames

Do you need to understand your twin flame relationship more? If you do, there are some great tarot spreads that will help you to be able to understand this connection and help you to work through the hard times.

Dynamic Twin Flame Tarot Spread

This tarot spread can help you when you want to know if you are connecting with your twin flame:

  • Card 1: Where are you in your spirit and emotions?
  • Card 2: Where is your twin flame in their spirit and emotions?
  • Card 3: What kind of connection issues are you experiencing?
  • Card 4: What can the divine tell you that will help through these problems?
  • Card 5: How can progress be made?

Twin Flame Growth Tarot Spread

This spread can help you if you need to have more growth and you are having troubles with your connection:

  • Card 1: What is the energy between you and your twin?
  • Card 2: What lessons are you learning in your karma?
  • Card 3: What karmic lessons are you helping your twin with?
  • Card 4: How can you raise the vibrations of your twin flame relationship?

Separation of the Twin Flame Tarot Spread

All twin flame relationships have a time where they go through separation, and this can be very hurtful. There will be a chaser and a runner, and it is part of the karma lessons that you will learn. Once this is fixed and you are both healed, the separation will not happen again. After it happens though the first time it can be very painful, and you will need to work on yourself.

  • Card 1: What does your twins higher self-want you to know?
  • Card 2: What are you stuck on and what do you need to work on in your life?
  • Card 3: What can you expect with your connection?

Once you meet your twin flames you will see that things around you will change. You will be able to use the energy of yourself and your twin flame energy in order to heal your life and your insecurities.

Getting a twin flame tarot reading is one thing that you can do to heal when you are going through hard things with your twin flame. Your twin flame journey will be more understood once you get a tarot card reading.

From Bedroom to Relationship

Relationship

Relationships are sometimes about love but sometimes they are just about sex. You might have started your relationship about sex and then the feelings can change. A relationships has to have different things in it for it to survive and even if you are enjoying your partner, if you or them decides there needs to be more, the relationship can either grow or die.

There are ways that you can change your relationship from just the bedroom to a real relationship. You can find that the physical pleasure that you have might turn to something more than just sex and affection to something more intimate.

Knowing It’s All About Sex

When you are tired of it just being about sex, here are some things that you can know about your relationship. If you are in this kind of relationship, then you are just there for the sex and your partner wants nothing more.

  • He Has a Wife

When a married man calls you and you are going over to have sex with him, he only wants sex. He will never want to marry you.

  • Open Relationships

Men that want open relationships aren’t looking for something serious. They want to be with someone that is fun and likes to play but not one that wants something more.

  • Timetable

Having sex with someone and giving them all of your passion is a sign that you are either attracted to sex or you want to be in a relationship. If you are with someone that keeps pushing the dates back after they say they will get serious after a stage in their life. If a guy tells you he will get serious after college and then he doesn’t, chances are he doesn’t want to be serious.

  • They Don’t Offer Much

Some men will only have sex to offer you. They don’t want a future, they don’t want to date you, they just want to have sex. You have to decide if that is what you want.

Changing Your Relationship from The Bedroom to Something More

There are things that you will face when you’re in a relationship that is just about sex. This can be challenging. Instead of fighting about this, there are some things that you can do to see if you can change your relationship from just sex to something more. Here is how:

  • Stop Having Sex

If all he wants from you is to have sex, then you need to tell him that you don’t want to have sex for a while. He can sit with you, talk to you and be with you but he cannot touch you.

  • Stop Being a Booty Call

Stop allowing your get together to be just about sex. Instead of sleeping with him, when he calls to see if you can come over, tell him you are busy. If you choose to go over, make sure that you are prepared to do something other than sex. If he wants to get close, talk about the weather or ask to watch a movie.

  • Meet Him Out

Instead of going to his house or him coming over, meet him out in public. This is away that you can be with him for the day without giving into sex. Take time to go out and allow him to hold your hand or to talk to you but if he wants to be intimate, refuse.

  • Give Him a Choice

Give him a choice to be with you in a relationship or to find someone else to sleep with. Stop giving him sex if this isn’t what you want. If you want to be with him deeper, you have to stand your ground and you have to make a choice for him to decide what he really wants. If he only wants sex, move on.

  • Date Other People

Find other men to date if he isn’t going to want to commit to you deeper. Instead of just going over to his house to have sex, go on a date with someone else. He will either see that he wants you or he will let you go.

  • Work On You

Don’t be someone that just gives in to booty calls if this isn’t what you want. You need to work on respecting yourself more and work on finding things to do other than sleeping with him. Imagine what your life would be like if you were out enjoying other people that want to be around you. Find a hobby that you like to do and work hard at making that work. You will find a man that wants you for more than just sex.

Using Tarot to Help Find Love

Tarot Love

Tarot cards are used as a tool of divination and they are cards that can give you information about your past, present or future. Each tarot deck has 78 cards, and they are divided into different suits including Swords, Cups, Wands, and Pentacles. They also have 10 numbered cards and four of each Page, Knight, King, and Queen card. Here is what they mean:

  • Swords: Air element, communicating.
  • Cups: Water element and emotions.
  • Wands: Fire element and taking action.
  • Pentacles: Materials and finances.

There are also major and minor arcana’s and there are 22 major arcana cards that are powerful in a reading and the rest are minor arcana’s. The cards are important to your life.

Tarot Reading for Love

When you want to find out about your love life, one of the best things you can do is get a tarot card reading. This can help you to understand what you are feeling and how much you love the person that you are with. If you are single or in a relationship, the tarot cards can help you to have a clear mind when it comes to love and romance. You can ask yes or no questions about your love life, but you can also ask open ended questions for a more detailed reading.

Keeping Notes

Before you ever begin pulling the cards, get your journal out. Write down everything that has happened up to this point in your relationship and then write the cards down that you pull. As your relationship changes, you can see what the tarot cards are telling you. Always keep a clear mind when you are doing a reading.

Clear your cards and make sure your area is cleansed and that you are cleansing yourself and meditating before you do your own love reading. Write down questions that you want to ask so that you can get clear answers. Look at the reasons that you are seeking love and be open to answer questions about this. Don’t keep pulling different cards if you don’t get the answer you like, or this will cause you to get confused. It is better to know the truth than to get an answer that you want to hear.

Using Tarot Spreads for Love

Here are some tarot spreads for love answers:

General Love Tarot Spread

This spread uses three cards to tell about the past, present and future:

  • Card 1: This is about what feeling the person you like has for you right now.
  • Card 2: This can tell you about your energy and how it is making the situation work so that you can know what to change.
  • Card 3: This card will tell you how love between you and your crush will change and what to do.

Catching a New Crush Spread

  • Card 1: Setting the goal. What kind of relationship that you want in your life and narrowing down specific things to focus on.
  • Card 2: Describing. This can let you know what they look like in their physical being.
  • Card 3: This card can tell you what to be mindful of and what attentions you need to give to the person’s needs.
  • Card 4: Assisting. Find out with this card where you will meet this person. Use your intuition.
  • Card 5: Advising. What is the final message that can help you to move forward?

Friendship Tarot Spread

You put this spread in the shape of a circle:

  • Card 1: Keep in mind friendships from your past.
  • Card 2: What is happening in your life and relationship now that is positive?
  • Card 3: What is happening in your life and relationship now that is negative.
  • Card 4: What do you need to make positive changes and to grow?
  • Card 5: What is causing unhappiness and stress?
  • Card 6: What do you want the outcome to be in this relationship?
  • Card 7: What advice do you have in this friendship?
  • Card 8: What can you bring to the friendship?
  • Card 9: What will they bring to the friendship?
  • Card 10: What is the outcome?

Relationship Checkup Tarot Spread

You can look at your relationship and see if you need to do something to make it better. This is a spread that can help you to figure out what to do. This is put in a Celtic Cross. There is a 1 and 2 in the middle, 1 is vertical and the second crosses horizontally over the 1. The 3 is put to the left and the 4 is put to the right.

  • Position 1: How do they feel about the relationship now?
  • Position 2: What needs to be done so that it can get better?
  • Position 3: How do you feel about what is going on in the relationship?
  • Position 4: What can be done to make things better so you can grow together?

Reconciliation Tarot Spread

This tarot spread uses seven cards. Each time you ask a question, pull a card:

  • Card 1: How do you feel right now?
  • Card 2: How do they feel right now?
  • Card 3: How can you give grace and healing to them and yourself?
  • Card 4: How do you find goodness in your life?
  • Card 5: How can you understand the relationship more?
  • Card 6: What are you avoiding?
  • Card 7: What does the future look like for the both of you?

Broken Heart Spread

This is a spread that can help to heal your broken heart. As you pull a tarot card, put it in the middle. Do this three times for a three-card lineup. The card will show you how to move on and you can choose to be clearer when you pull more cards. You should pull the card that is going to bring healing last.

The third card is the healing card. Under it, put a clarifying card. Before you look at the clarifying card, you need to know the meaning of the healing card. You can use the pictures to help you interpret it.

Angel cards and oracle cards are good to add to the tarot spread in this situation. They can help to clarify what your tarot cards are saying in the matter of love. It isn’t always easy to see bad news when doing a spread but when you are doing a reading, be open to what the cards tell you.

You can use things with your cards such as crystals, essential oils or other things that can help to center you before doing a tarot reading.

Are They The Right Partner Spread?

The Lovers card has to be found and put down. This will guide the other cards and will stay at the top of the spread. This is the soulmate card, and it is good to have the energy of this card when you ask questions about love.

Shuffle the cards while your eyes are closed and focus on what you want to know. Split the deck in half and only pull the cards from the top and pull two of them from each pile. The answer will be on the bottom of the pile from whichever you are feeling drawn to pull a card from there. Don’t judge what is said and what you are revealed. You will understand the meaning at some point even if you don’t right now.

How Do They Feel About You Tarot Spread?

When you are looking for a time, it can be hard to get the reading that you want. But when you want to know how someone feels about you, you can pull three cards and then put the meanings together. The best way of finding the answer is to shuffle the cards and keep pulling until you get a court card. The first court card that you will tell how they feel about you. If it’s the Queen of Swords, for example, they will see you as a strong person, but the Knight of Wands will tell you that they want a non-committed relationship with you, but they might also want to be a friend with benefits.

Doing a Love Tarot Spread

There are different kinds of tarot spreads that you can use. It depends on what kind of relationship questions you have.

How Many Cards Do You Pull?

You can pull as little as one card and as high as 20 cards. Don’t spread larger than 20, especially if you are new to it. This could cause you to be confused. You can also pull one card for yes and one card for no. Or you can do a 6-8 card spread.

Using Tarot Cards for Love

You can use tarot cards for love, especially if you use a love tarot spread. This can work with your heart to give you answers about love and feelings.

Questions to Ask in a Love Spread

You can ask anything that you want in a tarot love spread. If you need clarity, be more specific about what you want to know. You can ask things like, “How does my partner feel about me,” or you can go simple and say, “Will I meet my soulmate this year?” It is completely up to you.