Getting Ready for a Relationship

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Getting Ready for a Relationship

Do you feel that you are going to be single forever, or do you feel that you are on the verge of finding that special someone? Have you been asking for a good relationship to come to you? If you are, there are chances that you have been praying and seeking God for this divine meeting.

God knows your heart and when you pray, He can prepare you for what you are hoping for. God will answer your prayers if you serve Him will all of your heart and then you will see that He can send you a relationship that is godly and that will be what is meant to be in your life.

Meeting someone should be in God’s timing and as you wait, make sure that you are building your relationship with God.

Signs God is Preparing You

Maybe you have seen these signs coming and you realize that God is getting you ready to be in a relationship. Here are some signs that He is:

  • You Have Faith in God

Building your relationship with God can help you to have faith in Him. As you seek His face and follow His purposes for your life, you will see that He has a purpose for you. If you have faith in Him and you trust that He knows what is best for you, He will guide you to love.

God is the only one that has agape and unconditional love for you, and it is important that you know that He loves you as He guides you rightly.

  • Prayers

You should be praying that God will send you the right person for your life. This will be a relationship that will be built on trust, love, and respect. If you believe that God has plans for you like the Bible says, then you will know that He will lead you down the right path.

You aren’t needing to make a list of what you want your partner to be like because God knows exactly who you need and what you need. If you have been praying for one specific person, stop doing this and ask God to send you the person that is meant to be with you.

  • Past Heartaches

You have been healed of your broken heart and it is no longer the thing that you think most of. When this happens, God is getting you ready for something new. God won’t put someone in your life that isn’t meant to be with you because He knows your future.

Even if you choose to be with someone that God hasn’t ordained for you, this is a choice you make but if you listen to God and you let yourself heal, He can guide you in the right direction.

  • Increased Maturity

There are changes that you have to make in your own life to better yourself before you get into a relationship. You should be mature in your emotions and in your thoughts. If you are in control of your emotions, you will be able to handle it when times are hard. You don’t need to lose hope or lose patience but be positive and know that God is with you.

Don’t allow your negative feelings to get in the way of who you are. Let God prepare you to be a better person and to be strong.

  • Finances

Going into a relationship without having your finances in order is a bad choice. You want to be happy, but you want to make sure that you are able to provide for the person that God sends you in your life. Before you meet that person, make sure that you are financially stable, and you are ready to make the move.

As you reach your fullest potential in life, you will be secure, and you will be ready to start thinking about having a family. God knows that things in this world are expensive, and you need to make good choices.

  • Character Over Looks

God won’t send you someone because you like how they look. You should be looking for someone based on their character and their traits. You should be in a relationship with someone because they love God mostly and foremost and then because they love you and treat you right.

Find a person that has real value and someone that will show you the love that you deserve. Having value means that you like them for who they are and not what they look like.

  • Beat Your Insecurities

Maybe you used to be insecure and now you have changed. When you are more comfortable with who you are, God can start sending people into your life that can help you along your journey.

  • You Care About You

Of course, you should love others first, but you also need to take care of yourself. You need to show yourself love and care. Exercise, eat right and do things that make your body healthy.

  • Taking Things Slow

Don’t put all of your energy into your relationship. God should always be first. You need to make sure that you aren’t rushing into things and that you are taking things slowly. You need to take time to get to know someone that comes into your life.

  • You’ve Become More Patient

You are thankful for all the things that God has given you and you have increased your patience as you have waited for what God wants for you. You live in today and you focus on the goodness of God and what He shows you and gives you.

  • You Became Selfless

Instead of always thinking about yourself, you put others first. You find people that need help, and you give them help. You show them that they have someone there to help them through their struggles. You are more focused on others instead of yourself.

  • You Care

You care about people and things around you. You care about animals; you care about people, and you care about the church. You show love to people that you meet, and you put yourself out there to make people see the love of God through you.

  • Love Ideas Changed

Instead of seeing love as a game, you realize that love is important. You understand that love isn’t like the movies and that it is full of ups and downs. You see that love is a powerful thing and that feelings are important and can change you.

You know that you have to work hard to make love last and you don’t just think of love as something simple.

  • You Are Responsible

You have become more responsible in your thoughts and your actions. You know that God has a purpose for you, and you are ready for the challenges that He has for you. You and your partner will make mistakes along the way, but you are going to be responsible in making sure that the relationship stays peaceful and strong.

  • You Are Happy Single

Even if you are single, you are happy because you are putting your focus on God. You are taking time to learn more about Him, and you aren’t focusing on being jealous of others or being mad that you don’t have someone in your life yet.

  • Trusting God

You are putting your trust in God and His timing because you know that He has what is best for you in your life. You like the idea of being in a relationship, but you are more willing to wait for what the Holy Spirit tells you before you make a move.

You know that God is there with you in every aspect of your life and that He has a perfect will for you. You know that love is patient and love is kind and you don’t have to be anxious for anything because He is a good God.

  • You Want to Find the One

Instead of wanting to find different partners and be with different people, you want to find the one that is meant to be with you. You are willing to wait for God to send you the one that is right for you instead of starting a relationship too soon.

Is God Trying to Communicate with You?

Here are some signs that God is trying to speak to you:

  • Messages

God can give you messages that you can pick up on when you read the Bible or when you are in church. God knows what you are going through, and He is there for you. Speak to Him.

  • Dreaming

God will let some people have dreams that will give them messages. God can send you dreams that can guide you and lead you. Some dreams are just dreams of this world, but some dreams are meant to give you a message.

  • Your Friends Encourage You

Some people are gifted in speaking through the word and when they do this, they might give you a message from God. God speaks through people through the Bible and through other people.

Listen to advice that people give you and pay attention to see if it is something that is in the Bible and something that God wants you to know.

Important Bible Verses

Here are some Bible verses that can help you in your life:

  • Genesis 2:8: “” Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
  • Philippians 4:6, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”
  • Matthew 7:7, “Ask and it shall be given to you; seek and you will find, knock and it will be opened to you.”
  • Psalms 37:4-5, “Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass.”
  • Song of Solomon 8:6, “Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave.”
  • Romans 12:12, “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.”

Final Thoughts

God is always preparing you for bigger and better things, even for relationships. He will put people in your path that are meant to be there, and he will help you to experience the love and care that He has for you.

Trust in God and let Him guide you in everything that you do in your life. As you live your life for Him, He is faithful and just gives you just what you need, when you need it. Believe in Him and make sure that you put all of your hope and trust in Him alone.