It is said that seeking bashert is a daunting task, but one that you find it, it is the best gift life has to give. How do you know when you have found it?
First of all what does it mean?
The Hebrew word bashert literally means soulmate. It means so much more than that. Symbolically it means it is the person who is truly the only one in the entire world that is a full compliment to you with all of your strengths and weaknesses. It is your destiny to find them and put yourself in complete balance.
How do you find Bashert?
The best part about this journey is that bashert is not something you can seek, it is found as you travel on your own journey being fully open to them when you find them. You may have to go through many relationships to find them. They may not arrive as a love partner. They may start as a friend but as you both mature and change, their true role in your life will appear.
Will it last forever?
Since Bashert is your ultimate mate, they are part of your ultimate goal and they will be part of the full completion of your life journey. Once you have found them, you will work together to make your worlds complete.
Do you have to find them later in life?
Not necessarily, but if you find them at young age will you be emotionally and spiritually mature enough to recognize them? If you do not, will you be able to go back to find them? If they are truly the one for you, you will have the strength and temerity to seek them out. Your bashert is part of your journey they are not the destination. They are truly a gift from fate.