Letting Go of Your Ex to Fix Your Karma

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Letting Go of Your Ex

It’s happened.  You’ve met a guy. He might just be the one to get you to stop thinking about your ex.  You have had plenty of time to get over the break up and you feel that you are ready to move on.  Can you move on if you still maintain contact with your ex and maybe even harbor some thoughts of getting back together?

You can’t change what you feel and it’s impossible to disconnect from what your heart wants, especially if you had a special connection with this person. This might keep you from moving on if you hope they can come back into your world.

Karma and Growth

Why do we keep behaving the same way? Why do we keep returning to the same place? Why does this keep happening? This happens because of karma. Karma is the manifestation of lack of growth.

We are on this plane of existence to move past our limitations. It is the goal of our lives to evolve into who we are meant to be as spirits of the highest nature. We can see our lives as both a challenge and an opportunity.  All of our experiences are a gift, a gift to grow through our relationships.

When we met someone to whom we feel connected, that is a karmic mate.  A good relationship will allow both of you to grow together. It is when growth doesn’t happen that the relationship becomes toxic.  This toxicity leads us to leave the relationship.

Moving On

If you leave your relationship with hard feelings of anger and resentment, you leave with bad karma because you haven’t grown. If you don’t get control of your negative feelings, you will set yourself up for a similar relationship. If you don’t learn your lesson the first time, you will repeat it.

You can move past this.

Meditate on this mantra:

  • Bless them for what they brought me.
  • Bless them for what they taught me.

Try saying this mantra each day so that you can prepare your mind, body, and soul for what you are going through. Realize that you have learned a lesson but that it is time to move forward. Realize that you learned your lesson and that you are ready to move past all of the pain and hurt and to start something new.

Once you make peace with this, you can let go of your ex without pain.  Once this has happened, you have released this lesson and your karma will change.  You will be able to move on. Asking yourself what you need to learn from the relationship can help you move on. Once you have acknowledged your growth, you can, indeed, move on.

18 COMMENTS

  1. The exploration of karma as a factor in repeated relationship patterns is quite insightful. The advice to meditate on specific mantras to evolve beyond past relationships offers a practical approach to emotional healing. A well-rounded perspective.

  2. This is one of the most thoughtful and encouraging articles I’ve read on the subject. The emphasis on personal growth and karma offers a holistic approach to dealing with past relationships. The advice to bless and learn from our experiences instead of harboring negative feelings is especially valuable. Kudos to the author for delivering such wisdom!

  3. This article profoundly resonates with the complexities of human relationships and growth. The perspective on karma and its connection to personal evolution is refreshing and insightful. The mantra provided is a powerful tool for emotional healing and moving forward. Truly enlightening!

    • Absolutely, Amy! The idea of viewing our relationships as opportunities for growth is transformative. I’ve found that adopting such a mindset has significantly helped me resolve past emotional turmoil. The mantra truly works!

  4. This article beautifully captures the essence of moving on with grace and dignity. The idea of viewing our relationships as opportunities for growth resonates deeply. It’s a profound reminder that every relationship, good or bad, serves a purpose in our spiritual journey.

  5. The notion that unresolved emotions can perpetuate negative karma and hinder new relationships is a compelling argument. The article’s holistic approach, combining spiritual concepts with practical advice, provides a balanced view on moving past a breakup.

  6. So, according to this, every failed relationship is a lesson and a gift? Sure, because nothing says ‘gift’ like emotional trauma and heartbreak. Can I return this gift and get my time back?

  7. Karma and growth? Really? It sounds more like a bad soap opera plot. How about we just call it ‘people make mistakes and move on’? The mystical spin is a bit much.

  8. The article provides an intriguing perspective on the interplay between karma and personal growth in relationships. The concept of viewing experiences as opportunities for spiritual development is intellectually stimulating. Meditation and mantras as tools for moving on are fascinating suggestions.

  9. This article is quite enlightening! The connection between karma and personal growth is often overlooked, and I appreciate the depth of insight provided. The advice on meditation and using mantras is both practical and spiritual. Well done!

  10. The idea that relationships serve as vehicles for personal evolution resonates with many philosophical teachings. The emphasis on learning from each relationship, whether positive or negative, aligns well with the notion of continuous self-improvement. Interesting read.

  11. I find it almost comical that the solution to moving on is a two-line mantra. There’s no ‘abracadabra’ for getting over someone! It takes time, effort, and sometimes a good amount of ice cream. Mantra or not, the road to healing is a tough one.

  12. Oh, karma and spiritual growth? Next you’ll be telling me to align my chakras to get over my ex. Spare me the pseudo-philosophical mumbo jumbo and give me some practical advice!

  13. Oh, great. Another article telling us to ‘meditate’ our problems away. If only life were that simple! I find this focus on karma a bit too mystical and not grounded in reality.

  14. It’s fascinating to consider the karmic implications of our relationships. The idea that we can grow together or become toxic is very aligned with many psychological theories. This piece offers a balanced view that merges spirituality and personal development.

  15. The article’s discussion of karmic relationships and their role in personal growth is thought-provoking. The suggestion to use meditation and mantras to process emotions and move on adds an element of mindfulness to the healing process. Worth considering.

  16. It’s intriguing to see how the concept of karma is tied to emotional growth in relationships. While the notion may seem abstract, it underscores an important psychological truth: we must learn and evolve from our past experiences to avoid repeating mistakes.

  17. So, we should bless our ex for the heartbreak and pretend it’s all good karma? That sounds like a joke. Maybe I’ll just stick to ice cream and Netflix to move on. Thanks for the laughs!

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