Over the years, jealousy has been referred to as a green-eyed monster. Jealousy has often been called the “green-eyed monster,” and with good reason. This creature is created by envy and grows like a cancer and, like this insidious disease it can spread quickly and can kill a relationship.
When it starts to grow it feeds on the jealousy felt by the partner until it turns them into the monster. This jealousy and envy can turn us against ourselves. With the jealousy we create tenuous hold on our own self esteem. This can make us bitter and resentful and leads us into being envious of things that we don’t have that we think are important.
From this tiny seed of envy, a large tree of doubt and mistrust grows towards your partner and for no reason. You may be jealous of people who have a shared history or people who seem closer to your partner. This can affect your behavior and your partner will definitely notice.
Instead of letting this grow, act positively by getting to know his friends so you can feel reassurance and also learn a bit more about your love. Here are some things you can do to make sure that you do not fall into the prison of jealousy:
- Do not isolate yourself.
- Devote free time to other people and not just always your partner.
- Talk to your friends and colleagues.
- Have a balance in your relationship.
- Use self-care and know your own needs.
If you absolutely cannot break this jealousy chain, you can always consult a psychic who uses astrology can study the charts of you and your partner. They may be able to find out if you really have reason to be jealous. She can also help you understand why you are the jealous type and reassure you that you are just someone inclined to be possessive or jealous. She can help you understand yourself and how to control your jealousy.
Scorpio’s and Jealousy
Scorpio is a sign that is closely connected to jealousy. The feelings in this sign run deep and are not often easy to express. An astrologer will look to see if you have any planets in the sign of Scorpio, especially the Moon or Venus. The Moon in Scorpio creates and possessive and emotional nature, and your sense of security will feel threatened by any ties that your partner has elsewhere.
The Moon in Scorpio will dictate the preference that these things are not displayed. Similar feelings will arise with old friends — especially female friends — and close work colleagues.
Finding love is not easy for a person with the Moon in Scorpio, because no one comes without baggage. Such jealousy can be difficult to communicate and even more difficult to live with, but a psychic can guide you in dealing with these feelings.
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in Scorpio has a slightly different approach. Venus is concerned with looks and romance, so the attractiveness of the exes, female friends, and work colleagues will be a big factor in jealous fears. If you have Venus in Scorpio in your chart, you will feel threatened particularly if your partner’s job brings him into daily contact with attractive women, whom you will see as rivals.
If he has to attend expensive lunches with attractive clients, you will feel threatened and demand that he make up for it by taking you out to dinner. If he has been looking forward to a quiet evening at home with you and does not understand why you need reassurance, it can damage your relationship.
Understanding Jealous Feelings
Understanding why you have these feelings can help you avoid unnecessary bouts of betrayal. He may not understand why you should feel jealous of people he needs to be in contact with every day. He may not understand that you see his contact with his ex in a different light. To him, it is something he has to do because they have joint business interests or children, while to you it looks as if he can’t let go of her.
Final Thoughts
If you can’t let go of these feelings of jealousy, they will molder and eventually destroy the new relationship as well. A psychic will advise you on the best ways of communicating with your partner, either by comparing your astrological natal charts or by reading the Tarot cards.
The key to a happy relationship is mutual understanding. Don’t let your jealousy turn you into another ex-girlfriend.
What a compelling read! The exploration of jealousy, especially through the lens of astrology, is both fascinating and enlightening. I appreciate the emphasis on self-care and understanding one’s own needs as a way to counteract jealousy. The advice on getting to know your partner’s friends and maintaining balance in a relationship is practical and wise. It’s also intriguing to consider how astrological placements, particularly the Moon and Venus in Scorpio, can influence these intense emotions. This article is a great blend of psychological insight and astrological wisdom.
This article offers a profound exploration into the intricate nature of jealousy. The analogy of jealousy as a ‘green-eyed monster’ is both evocative and accurate, elucidating how these emotions can undermine our self-esteem and relationships. The practical steps provided, such as not isolating oneself and maintaining a balance in relationships, are invaluable guidance. Moreover, the astrological insights concerning Scorpio and jealousy add an intriguing dimension to understanding these feelings. Kudos to the author for providing such a thorough and thoughtful analysis.
I found this article genuinely insightful. The description of jealousy as a ‘green-eyed monster’ is quite apt, and the practical advice given, such as not isolating oneself and maintaining a balanced relationship, could truly help individuals manage their emotional challenges.
This article presents a fascinating perspective on jealousy and its potential impact on relationships. It’s refreshing to see actionable advice and the inclusion of astrological insights. Understanding the root cause of our emotions can indeed lead to healthier relationships.
Seriously? Are we in the 18th century? Recommending people to consult psychics to deal with jealousy? This is absolutely preposterous! How about suggesting some evidence-based therapy or counseling instead?
While the emphasis on self-care and communication is commendable, I vehemently disagree with the notion that astrology can offer any real assistance in dealing with jealousy. Our feelings and behaviors are complex and require more robust approaches.
Oh Brutus, don’t be such a buzzkill! Astrology might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but some people find comfort in it. To each their own, right?
Jealousy is indeed a green-eyed monster! The way it’s described as growing like cancer is both terrifying and accurate. Loving the analogy, though I hope nobody takes the psychic advice too seriously. Let’s stick to talking it out and maybe a nice yoga session.
The metaphor of jealousy growing like a cancer is quite powerful and effectively conveys the potential damage it can cause. The suggestion to devote time to others and not just your partner is particularly useful. Nonetheless, I’m uncertain about the reliance on psychics and astrology as means to resolve such deep-seated issues. Professional therapy might provide more concrete results.
The analogy of jealousy to a green-eyed monster is quite apt. This article nicely outlines the destructive impact jealousy can have on relationships. However, relying on psychics for relationship advice seems somewhat unconventional. In my opinion, engaging in open communication with your partner and possibly seeking professional therapy would be more effective.
I must say, the suggestion to consult a psychic seems rather unscientific and outlandish. Relying on astrology to manage jealousy undermines the importance of psychological approaches and healthy communication. We should focus more on evidence-based methods.
The article makes some noteworthy points about how jealousy can erode self-esteem and create mistrust. While the advice to get to know your partner’s friends is sound, I am skeptical about turning to astrology or psychics for validation or reassurance. Practical steps like self-reflection and relationship counseling might be more beneficial.
The suggestions to not isolate oneself and to maintain a balance in the relationship are quite valuable. It is crucial to have a well-rounded support system. The focus on astrological signs was intriguing, although I believe that self-awareness and understanding should primarily come from within, rather than external sources.
The analysis of Scorpio and jealousy is quite fascinating. As someone who’s into astrology, I thoroughly enjoyed the part about the Moon and Venus in Scorpio. I believe understanding our astrological charts can indeed provide some insights into our emotional tendencies.
While the article makes some valid points, its reliance on astrology and psychics to solve deep-seated emotional issues is questionable at best. Aren’t there more scientific methods to address jealousy?
I agree, Chum. Though astrology can be interesting, it should not replace professional mental health advice. Therapy and self-reflection can be far more effective.
You both make good points, but sometimes people find comfort in unconventional methods. If astrology helps someone understand their emotions, why not?
Ah yes, because nothing says ‘healthy relationship’ like spying on your partner’s birth chart! Seriously, if someone suggested I consult a psychic to deal with jealousy, I’d be more concerned about their mental state than my own.
I appreciate the emphasis on self-care and knowing one’s own needs. It is true that jealousy can stem from insecurity, and addressing these insecurities can help mitigate such feelings. However, I think it’s important to also stress the role of trust and communication in a relationship, rather than just focusing on astrological elements.
Oh great, let’s solve our relationship issues by staring at the stars and flipping Tarot cards! Next, we’ll be consulting crystal balls to find our lost keys. Truly, a modern solution to an ancient problem!