In the day-to-day, happiness doesn’t always look like radiating joy all the time. It doesn’t look like giddily texting each other all day or greeting each other with passionate kisses every time you reconnect. Even though that may still happen occasionally, long-term couples tend to measure happiness and healthiness a little bit differently. While each couple is different, what all happy couples have in common are little things that significantly impact their relationship.
Relationships ebb and flow, and there are times where things will be better than others. Likewise, there will be hard times and bumps in the road, but there are things that partners can be sure to do that can add to the overall long-term happiness of their relationship.
Here are some things that every happy couple does:
- Fight less, kiss more because partners do fight, even if it’s about silly things. Every time one of you starts arguing, take a moment to kiss each other instead! Fights are overrated, find common ground and skip to the reconciliation part!
- Eat a meal together every day
Whether it’s breakfast in bed, a quick sandwich lunch between a workday, or an order-pizza-in dinner, make time to share a meal. By detaching from all the crap that goes on in the world all day long and enjoying food with the one you love most – you create special memories that strengthen your bond.
- Text less, speak more
We keep in touch all day long by text. However, no emoji is ever as expressive as the smile in someone’s voice. So, instead of texting endlessly, take a break from your tasks, dial, and talk to your lover for ten minutes.
- Go on trips, both big and small!
People plan long vacations – destinations that have been on our bucket list forever. Then, before we know it, we end up delaying trips because of something or the other. Less planning and more action is what we really need. Simply take a day trip on Saturdays, or hop on to a train and see where you end up.
- Go out less, hang out more
It’s great to go out with, especially when we’re with friends. But then people sometimes forget to spend any “couple time” together – just the two of you. So stay in somedays, doing nothing in particular except enjoy each other’s company and maybe learn a bit more about your partner.
- Find that “you and me” hobby
He likes playing soccer. You like dancing. Both can accompany each other to these things. But everyone needs something special you both love – and love more because you do it with each other. Maybe painting, maybe karate… but it’s high time you discover it – together!
- Buy less stuff, make more memories
Couples buy each other presents all the time. Sometimes they’re for birthdays and other milestone occasions. Other times, gifts can be random things for those “just because” moments. But what we ignore sometimes is that a gift is about more than an object – it’s about the act of giving and the love behind it. What we need to be gifting each other are experiences – shared smiles, shared happiness.
Just because you and your partner have been together for a while doesn’t mean the passion has to wane. By taking time out of your day and week to be mindful of your special bond, you can continue to build a love that will last. When you focus on creating those “little” moments of joy and connection, you both can learn something new about each other. Plus, you can create new avenues to strengthen your communication skills and cultivate special memories that will get you both through even the rockiest of times – together.
While the article offers some valuable suggestions, the idea of ‘kissing instead of fighting’ seems overly simplistic. Conflict resolution requires more than mere physical affection; it necessitates real communication and understanding.
This article beautifully encapsulates the essence of nurturing a long-term relationship. The advice to fight less and kiss more is both charming and wise, and truly captures the spirit of fostering positivity. The suggestion to make memories rather than accumulate material possessions is a poignant reminder of what truly matters in life.
I couldn’t agree more, Cherry. The idea of focusing on experiences over things is something my partner and I have embraced, and it has brought us closer together. The little moments and shared adventures have become priceless memories.
Absolutely, Cherry and Evelyn! The notion of valuing ‘couple time’ is critical in today’s fast-paced world. Prioritizing these small yet significant actions can indeed help weather the inevitable storms in any relationship.
I appreciate the sentiment of spending quality time together, but the recommendations seem a bit idealistic for those with demanding careers or kids. Sacrificing sleep or professional commitments isn’t always feasible.
Agreed. While the ideas are beautiful, they don’t take into account how tiring and chaotic real-life can be. Sometimes, just getting through the day is an achievement.
The article makes a good point about the importance of small, everyday actions in maintaining a happy relationship. It’s true that long-term couples often find joy in seemingly mundane activities, like eating a meal together or going on small trips.
The insights in this article are refreshingly practical and heartfelt. It’s easy to forget the importance of the small gestures that create lasting happiness in a relationship. I especially appreciate the emphasis on shared meals and hobbies; these simple acts can indeed fortify the bond between partners in profound ways.
Ah, yes, because nothing says ‘lasting love’ like avoiding serious conversations and pretending conflicts can just be kissed away. Sure, why not replace therapy with endless pizza dates too?
Exactly. It’s about adding positivity, not avoiding reality. A healthy relationship should have space for both light-hearted moments and deep, meaningful discussions.
I think the article is more about creating balance and reminding us to enjoy simple pleasures. It’s not suggesting we avoid serious conversations altogether.
Haha, ‘fight less, kiss more’? Sounds like a slogan for a romantic comedy! But all jokes aside, there’s value in promoting positivity and making an effort to connect with your partner on a deeper level. It’s not a magical solution, but it’s a step in the right direction.
The suggestion to ‘find that you and me hobby’ is particularly insightful. A shared activity can create a unique bond and foster mutual understanding and appreciation. It also offers a fun way to spend time together.
Emphasizing quality time over material gifts is a valuable perspective. Shared experiences and memories can indeed contribute to a deeper and more meaningful connection between partners.
While the article provides practical tips, it’s important to remember that every relationship is unique. What works for one couple might not work for another, so it’s crucial to find what specifically enhances the happiness and healthiness of your own relationship.
I find this article rather naive. It implies that problems in a relationship can be solved with a mere kiss or a meal together. Real issues require real solutions, not these simplistic measures. Relationships are far more complex.
I appreciate the advice to communicate more verbally rather than through text. Voice conversations can convey emotions more effectively and help in building a stronger emotional connection.
This article is truly a breath of fresh air! It emphasizes the genuine connection between partners rather than the superficial gestures society often glorifies. It’s a lovely reminder that long-lasting happiness comes from the little, everyday moments.
What a wonderfully heartwarming read! The emphasis on creating ‘little moments’ really resonated with me. It’s a great reminder to cherish the small interactions that build our relationships.
Oh, sure. Because in the middle of an argument, everyone has the presence of mind to stop and kiss. That’s exactly how real life works! Eye-roll.
As someone who believes in the culinary arts as a way to bring people together, the idea of sharing a meal daily is spot on. Food has a unique way of fostering connection and creating lasting memories.
The author’s focus on communication and shared experiences is spot on. Studies have shown that couples who frequently engage in these activities tend to report higher satisfaction in their relationships.