Have you begun a new romantic relationship and need to know if he’s in love with you? Do you worry that he just wants to be your “friend with benefits”? Is he hard to read? Are you looking for encouragement that you’ll get the commitment he’s promising?
If you’re feeling uncertain about your significant other’s feelings for you, you may be considering a tarot card reading to gain some insights. But tarot cards can’t read minds. Neither can tarot readers. But what they can do is give you a general sense of what energy is present.
As an example, positive cards in a spread, like The Lovers or the 2 of Cups, could be a good sign that he’s into you. Negative cards, like the 9 of Swords or The Tower, could be an indication of problems.
To be honest, if you’re looking to tarot cards to see if he’s in love with you or not, all you’re going to do is to drive yourself a little crazy.
So instead of using tarot cards to take a sneak peek into what he’s thinking and feeling, it would be wiser to use common sense to analyze the signs that he’s giving you. And yes, these signs are quite easy to read!
Signs that he is in love with you:
- He wants to be with you often.
- He regularly communicates with you.
- He returns your texts and calls in a timely fashion.
- He makes romantic gestures.
- He expresses genuine interest in you and what’s important to you.
- He’s proud to introduce you to his friends and family.
- He’s seeing only you.
- He comes right out and says, “I love you.”
Signs that he may not be in love with you:
- He often does not return your texts or calls.
- He ghosts you for days (or even weeks) at a time.
- He only calls you and wants to see you late at night (just in time for a booty call).
- He refuses to be exclusive with you and is seeing other women.
- He gets angry with you if you look at his phone, like he’s trying to hide things from you.
- He talks about his ex like he hasn’t quite gotten over her yet.
- He doesn’t make romantic gestures or engage in PDAs with you.
- He doesn’t take you out to events.
- He won’t take you to meet his friends and family.
- He wants to see other people, and also wants you to.
- His profiles on dating sites are still active.
- He doesn’t want you at his place and doesn’t let you keep any of your things there.
- He introduces you to other people as “my friend.”
- He doesn’t mention you on social media, and his relationship status is still “single.”
- He doesn’t say that he loves you.
These are just signs, and it is possible to misread them. So, the best thing to do is to be honest. Try asking him directly. Communicating openly and honestly with your significant other will yield far more dependable insight than anything else possibly could.
If your partner seems to be unable to give you a clear answer, or if he is a poor communicator, there may be more significant issues that you need to address. In those cases, it’s best to seek a relationship counselor to find healthy ways to communicate with each other about your feelings.
So next time you think about turning to tarot to try to discern if he’s in love with you, keep this in mind: common sense will serve you better than trying to pry into someone else’s thoughts and feelings. Psychics and tarot readers can’t see everything. So don’t pin your hopes exclusively on tarot cards. Place them on your abilities to read the signs, and work to develop honest and healthy communication.
Don’t waste your time on a guy who makes you wonder about his feelings for you. Don’t give your heart to a guy who can’t be honest and open with you. If he really cares about you and loves you, you don’t need psychics and tarot cards to see that. It will be as clear to you as your nose on your face.
A wonderfully written piece! The pragmatic approach to understanding a partner’s feelings rather than turning to tarot cards is much needed. The article does an excellent job of listing tangible signs of love and warning signals, which can serve as a handy guide for anyone in a new relationship. The emphasis on communication as the cornerstone of a healthy relationship is spot-on. This article is a great reminder that clarity and honesty are far more valuable than mystical interpretations. Well done!
This article is enlightening and offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships. It wisely advises against relying solely on tarot cards to gauge someone’s feelings, emphasizing the importance of common sense and clear communication. I appreciate how it delineates the signs of genuine affection and potential red flags, which can empower anyone feeling uncertain. Truly, honesty and open dialogue are indispensable in any meaningful relationship. Kudos to the author for a thoughtful and balanced take!
This article provides a balanced view by listing both positive and negative signs to watch for in a relationship. It emphasizes that clear communication is crucial and offers practical advice for those seeking reassurance about their partner’s feelings.
Oh, the naivety! If only relationships were as simple as checking off a list. This article overlooks the complexity of human emotions and the nuances involved in romantic relationships.
The information here is quite practical. Instead of relying on mystical elements, the focus should indeed be on clear signals and open communication. That is wise advice for anyone in a relationship.
While the signs listed are relatively valid indicators, it’s worth noting that every relationship is unique. What may be a red flag in one situation could be inconsequential in another. Always consider the context.
This article is a bit condescending. People turn to tarot for comfort and guidance, and brushing it off as ineffective isn’t fair. Everyone has their own way of finding peace and clarity.
Ah, the timeless ‘does he love me?’ question. While I find the emphasis on common sense and clear communication enlightening, I do believe that tarot can serve as a helpful introspective tool. It might not read his mind, but it can help you understand your own feelings better.
The article makes a compelling argument for relying on common sense and communication rather than external tools like tarot cards. It highlights the importance of open dialogue to understand one’s partner better.
It’s refreshing to see an article that advocates for using common sense over mysticism. We often look for external validation when the answers are within our grasp. Healthy communication is indeed the key!
So, we’re saying that instead of mystical tarot cards, we should trust the ‘mystical’ powers of ‘common sense’? What a revolutionary idea! Next thing you know, they’ll be saying water is wet.
What a load of rubbish! If someone needs tarot cards to figure out if their partner loves them, they have bigger issues to address. This article is just pandering to people’s insecurities.
Well, if you need a deck of cards to tell you that your partner ghosting you for weeks isn’t a good sign, you might want to re-evaluate more than just your relationship. Seriously though, it’s all about clear communication, folks!
So, let me get this straight, I should ditch my tarot deck and actually talk to the person I’m dating? Revolutionary! Next, you’ll tell me I need to breathe to stay alive. 😂
The article offers solid advice by emphasizing the importance of direct communication over reliance on tarot cards. It underlines that understanding a partner’s actions and words is more reliable than seeking mystical answers.
Interesting read. The article rightly points out that while tarot cards can offer some insights, they are not a substitute for common sense and clear communication. It provides a good reminder to focus on tangible actions and honest discussions in a relationship.
I appreciate the practical approach suggested in this article. While tarot readings can be intriguing, it’s clear that tangible signs and honest communication provide a more reliable basis for understanding a partner’s true feelings.